"Personally, I believe that this is because the ill-fitting pieces we try so hard to hold onto are almost exclusively edge and corner pieces that limit our ability to expand and build outward."
This is a profound way of thinking about self-limitation. Those tasty, tasty corner and edge pieces that you start with, set down, and forget about. Whether or not intended, the are the last pieces of us that we'd consider being out of place..
Precisely! We perceive these outer boundaries as the frame we’re expected to fill out and fit into, not realizing that the frame itself is a false construct.
"Personally, I believe that this is because the ill-fitting pieces we try so hard to hold onto are almost exclusively edge and corner pieces that limit our ability to expand and build outward."
This is a profound way of thinking about self-limitation. Those tasty, tasty corner and edge pieces that you start with, set down, and forget about. Whether or not intended, the are the last pieces of us that we'd consider being out of place..
Precisely! We perceive these outer boundaries as the frame we’re expected to fill out and fit into, not realizing that the frame itself is a false construct.